What I feared has happened: apparently, men love to comment on my legs/tights/stuff.
I have received some pesky comments on my last Lookbook post, last night, and I felt that I really had to make some clarifications.
Being on LB just because you want to see a bit of legs here and there is simply pointless: that's not a dating site!
I feel treated like some piece of raw steak, on display in the window, anytime I post some pictures where my skirt is shorter or my lipstick is heavier: people come, make an estimation and, if they like what they see, they might want to buy me.
I hate when I try to show my own fashion taste and get only some form of judgement on the basis of my "attractiveness". I'm not raw meat: I am a person, I've got a hobby and I don't want it to be misunderstood. I don't need followers who can only think I am sexually available just because my tighs are more or less uncovered. Thinking that a girl (or a boy!) can be beautiful or attractive is just normal and it's perfectly legitimate, but I would never dream of going to some blogger's profile and leave him comments like
"OMG BOY YOUR ABSSS YUUUMMMMYYYYYYY KISS ME MARRY ME MMMHHHHH"
because he is a fashion blogger and not just some kind of idol for little girls!
...Well, there might be girls who actually do that, but personally I would find it silly...
Oh, that's not the point anyway.
In short, I don't please receiving comments filled with poor appreciations, you can think and feel whatever you want about me, but if you also mind my opinion towards you, just don't do it.
Please, try to understand me; if you don't, feel free to leave!
No hate, no flame, just peace, love and bunny fluff.
Have a good day and thanks for your attention :)
I have received some pesky comments on my last Lookbook post, last night, and I felt that I really had to make some clarifications.
Being on LB just because you want to see a bit of legs here and there is simply pointless: that's not a dating site!
I feel treated like some piece of raw steak, on display in the window, anytime I post some pictures where my skirt is shorter or my lipstick is heavier: people come, make an estimation and, if they like what they see, they might want to buy me.
I hate when I try to show my own fashion taste and get only some form of judgement on the basis of my "attractiveness". I'm not raw meat: I am a person, I've got a hobby and I don't want it to be misunderstood. I don't need followers who can only think I am sexually available just because my tighs are more or less uncovered. Thinking that a girl (or a boy!) can be beautiful or attractive is just normal and it's perfectly legitimate, but I would never dream of going to some blogger's profile and leave him comments like
"OMG BOY YOUR ABSSS YUUUMMMMYYYYYYY KISS ME MARRY ME MMMHHHHH"
because he is a fashion blogger and not just some kind of idol for little girls!
...Well, there might be girls who actually do that, but personally I would find it silly...
Oh, that's not the point anyway.
In short, I don't please receiving comments filled with poor appreciations, you can think and feel whatever you want about me, but if you also mind my opinion towards you, just don't do it.
Please, try to understand me; if you don't, feel free to leave!
No hate, no flame, just peace, love and bunny fluff.
Have a good day and thanks for your attention :)
I totally agree with you ! Thanks for writing about this subject!
ReplyDeleteEww, I didn't know this type of thing happens on Lookbook :-/ I hope it stops!
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